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PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Winter Weather
Parish/School Activities canceled

The following activities are canceled for the parish and/or school
beginning at 3pm Saturday through 8am Monday.
Cursillo Regional Ultreya, Children's Liturgy of the Word, Saint Bernadette School Open House,
faith250 with Fr. Don, CYO Sports, Boy Scouts,
Eucharistic Minister Training (Spanish),
Spanish Young Adults Meeting, Weekend Coffee and Donuts,
Family Faith/CLOW Family Donut Social and Family Faith Formation.

       Thank you to all parish volunteers who have RSVP'd to next weekend's Night of Stars! Unfortunately, we are at capacity and the guest list is now closed.

      This weekend and next, join Fr. Don at noon on Sundays in the Bradican Room for faith250 in preparation for our nation’s 250th anniversary. See the bulletin for details.

      Saint Bernadette School will celebrate the start of Catholic Schools Week with an Open House being held on Sunday January 25, Noon until 1pm. See what Saint Bernadette School has to offer
your family.

      Next weekend’s second collection is for the Arlington Catholic Herald. Please consider supporting the official, award-winning newspaper of the diocese and its mission to evangelize through news from a Catholic perspective. Our $ 46, 312 assessment is based 80% of our registered households.

     The 2026 Bishop’s Lenten Appeal mailing was recently sent to parishioners. The 2026 them is “In Christ We Are One”, which reminds us of this great theological virtue that is rooted in Jesus Christ and the victory he won for us. You can make a gift at www.arlingtondiocese.org/bla. Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $ 582,000.

      Discover the Beauty and Riches of the Mass Saint Bernadette Lenten Study 2026. Join us for a 5-week study this Lent, as we learn to better understand the celebration of the Mass. See the bulletin for more information.

      Inclement Weather Delays and Closures : Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

    Today, we celebrate the Conversion of St. Paul, the Apostle. His conversion is an important moment in Christian history, from persecuting the first martyr (St. Stephen) as Saul to converting and following Jesus as Paul. He is responsible to spreading Christianity in communities outside of Israel, in Asia Minor and Europe. Thirteen books in the New Testament are attributed to him. You can watch his conversion story with your children here: https://youtu.be/IlXFy3zjJh4

      Parish baby supplies donation drive: The donation drive for baby supplies for Catholic Charities Migrant and Refugee Services is ongoing until February 2. Items are being collected in the playpens in the church vestibule. All parishioners are encouraged to donate. See page 10.

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out                the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

Sunday Doughnut Social: Jan.25 after 9am Mass at the School Cafeteria
Regular classes : Jan. 27, Feb. 3-4, 10-11, 24-25
No classes : Jan. 28, Feb. 17-18
Family Faith Formation:  Feb. 1
SPRED Class: Feb. 7, 21

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, February 3 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    We are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

  Work Camp 2026 registration is open: Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

   All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our
Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering February 4

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, February 15, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 25 January 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Pope Leo XIV often speaks about Catholic Social Teaching in his writings and certainly chose his name for a reason.

Catholic Social Teaching is the body of doctrine developed by the Catholic Church to guide individuals, communities, and societies in promoting justice, peace, and the dignity of every human person. Rooted in Sacred Scripture, the teachings of Jesus Christ, and the Church’s moral tradition, it reflects the Church’s effort to respond faithfully to changing social, economic, and political realities. It is not a political ideology but a moral framework that evaluates social structures and actions with Gospel values.

At its heart is the dignity of the human person. The Church teaches that every human being is created in the image and likeness of God and therefore possesses inherent worth, regardless of race, nationality, economic status, or ability. All social, economic, and political systems must be judged by how well they protect and promote this dignity. From this foundational principle flow its themes.

The common good is understood as the sum of social conditions that allow individuals and communities to flourish. The common good requires respect for persons, social well-being and development, and peace and security. Closely related is the principle of solidarity, which emphasizes that human beings are interdependent and morally re-sponsible for one another, especially across national and economic boundaries. Solidarity calls Christians to recognize the suffering of others as their own and to work for justice.

Another central principle is subsidiarity, which holds that decisions should be made at the lowest level possible, consistent with the common good. Larger institutions, such as governments or corporations, should support—not replace—the initiative and responsibility of individuals, families, and local communities. Subsidiarity safeguards human freedom and participation while recognizing the legitimate role of higher authorities when local efforts are insufficient.

The preferential option for the poor calls special attention to the needs of the most vulnerable. While the Church affirms the value of private property and economic initiative, it insists that material goods are ultimately destined for the benefit of all. This leads to principles such as the right to work, just wages, safe working conditions, and the rights of workers to organize. Care for creation has also become an increasingly prominent theme, emphasizing humanity’s responsibility to steward the earth responsibly for future generations.

The development of Catholic Social Teaching was significantly shaped by historical catalysts, particularly the social upheavals brought about by modernity. The Industrial Revolution of the 18th and 19th centuries marked a critical turning point. Rapid industrialization led to widespread poverty, unsafe labor conditions, child labor, and vast economic inequality. Traditional social structures were disrupted, and new economic systems often prioritized profit over people. In response, Pope Leo XIII issued Rerum Novarum in 1891, widely regarded as the foundational document of modern Catholic Social Teaching. It addressed the rights and duties of capital and labor, defended workers’ rights, and rejected both unrestrained capitalism and revolutionary socialism.

Subsequent global crises further shaped our teaching. The Great Depression, World Wars, and the rise of totalitarian regimes prompted deeper reflection on human rights, political authority, and international cooperation. After World War II, the horrors of genocide and mass violence led the Church to emphasize universal human rights and global solidarity, as seen in Pope John XXIII’s Pacem in Terris (1963).

The Second Vatican Council (1962–1965) marked another major catalyst by calling the Church to read “the signs of the times.” Its pastoral constitution Gaudium et Spes engaged contemporary issues such as economic justice, peace, and the role of the Church in the modern world. Later popes and papal documents addressed decolonization, globalization, technological change, and environmental degradation.

Our living tradition integrates timeless moral principles with concrete historical realities. Born from the Church’s encounter with social injustice and human suffering, her teaching continues to challenge believers to build a world rooted in dignity, solidarity, justice, and love. This is our contribution to the often divisive modern dialogue with unchanging principles based on God, his creation, and his desire to redeem all of us.

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

 

      For the next four weeks, join Fr. Don at noon on Sundays in the Bradican Room for faith250 in preparation for our nation’s 250th anniversary. See the bulletin for details.

      Join us for our monthly (third Monday) Taizé Prayer Service on Monday night, January 19, 8 - 8:45pm. Come for a peaceful moment of simple song and silence and pray for Christian Unity.

      Saint Bernadette School will celebrate the start of Catholic Schools Week with an Open House being held on Sunday January 25, Noon until 1pm. See what Saint Bernadette School has to offer
your family.

      All adult parishioners who have volunteered in the past several years are invited to come to our Night of Stars - Saturday, 31 January, 6:30-11pm. Join us for an evening dinner, drinks and
dancing to the music of the Andrew Thielen Big Band of North Myrtle Beach. This is an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the work of parish volunteers. Please note this event is a
seated dinner event, doors open at 6
:30pm with pre-event hospitality followed by dinner at 7pm. RSVP required to Evelyn.

      Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Our second interest meeting for teens and adults who might want to attend Work Camp is on January 15, 7-8:15 pm in the Cafeteria. For
inquiries, contact Matthew Frey, matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

     The 2026 Bishop’s Lenten Appeal mailing was recently sent to parishioners. The 2026 them is “In Christ We Are One”, which reminds us of this great theological virtue that is rooted in Jesus Christ and the victory he won for us. You can make a gift at www.arlingtondiocese.org/bla. Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $ 582,000.

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

      We celebrate the feast day of St. Agnes on January 21.  Her name means “Lamb of
God.” You can find suggestions for activities you can do with your children here: https://catholicprintableclub.com/how-to-celebrate-the-feast-of-st-agnes-january-21/

      We will hold a First Holy Communion parent information meeting on Jan. 20-21 from 6:15-7pm in the Bradican Room, for the 2nd year FHC, SPOC2 and MS/HS students receiving the
sacrament in the Spring of 2026. School parents are invited to attend. 

      During January, the parish will have a donation drive for baby supplies for Catholic Charities Migrant and Refugee Services. Items will be collected in the church vestibule. We will publish a list
of items requested by MRS in a few weeks. All parishioners are encouraged to donate. See today's bulletin for details.

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out

the  Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

Regular Classes: Jan. 20-21, 27 (no class Jan. 28)
SPRED Class: Jan. 24
Sunday Doughnut Social: Jan.25 after 9am Mass at the School Cafeteria

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, January 20 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    In 2026, we are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff
date on February 5. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on January 8. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at
jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our
Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering 21 January

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults, ages 18-35 are invited to Coffee and Conversation on Sunday, January 25th. After 9am Mass, we will meet at Tous les Jours coffee shop. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 18 January 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Every once in a while I am approached by a family who are new to the parish and am so happy they take the time to introduce themselves! To be honest, it is difficult to keep track of names, but if you keep telling me - (like my dad used to say), if you keep throwing mud at the barn, eventually it will stick.

In nearly every instance the new family says that the reason they decided to join our parish community is because we are so warm and welcoming. It makes me happy when people say that they came, and they just felt like they belonged. You, apparently, are very friendly. Thank you.

Last weekend we hosted a Mass and breakfast of ministry leaders and members of the new Parish Advisory Board so they would get to know each other better and talk about how we can go about doing the work of stewardship (using the gifts God gave you) together in a more efficient and effective way. We chose to focus on one of the four pillars of stewardship in particular: Hospitality.

Hospitality, prayer, formation, and service represent a holistic way of life by which we respond to God’s gifts through welcoming, connecting with God, continuous learning, and acting with love. We recognize all blessings as gifts and share them responsibly, encompassing our time, talent, and treasure.

We can deepen our commitment to welcoming everyone, recognizing Christ in them, and creating an inclusive community in which there is no such thing as a minority or an outsider.

It is so simple, really. A greeting with a smile.

When I first came here and we wrote the introduction for Mass, we invited everyone to turn to one another and “greet each other warmly with a smile.” A smile is a powerful thing. Then, COVID. Masks went on and we couldn’t see smiles anymore. I think this was one of the most damaging things that happened to us. We literally turned inward. It was hard to reverse.

So we changed the script to say “offer each other a gesture of welcome.” Mostly, I guess, people just waved. Kind of like the awkward post-COVID sign of peace.

But what if we made the moment last a little longer? Offer that person that always sits in front of you or always behind you for the last ten years a greeting and give them your name? I’m Fr. Don; what’s your name? Good to see you again. The person you have been coming to Mass with - is that your mom? I haven’t seen her lately. Is everything okay?

A moment of caring.

I am not particularly comfortable with ice breakers because I’m an introvert, so we aren’t going to have the cantor say, “Now turn to one another and tell the person on each side of you your favorite flavor of ice cream.” But how great (almost disarming) would it be if someone were to say “I’m Fr. Don and I think chocolate is amazing.” That would bring a smile, I should think, because it would be something you share. I like chocolate, too. You’re welcome!

Hospitality is not a grand gesture, it is just a moment or a glimpse that defenses are down and you can genuinely like to know someone new. (And, it can happen in church.)

Think for a moment who that person might be who is sitting in your pew. Maybe going through a really tough time right now (maybe something you are experiencing, too) or maybe they are disoriented by current events (as we all are). They might be nervous as cats because they just got up the courage to come back to church after ten years and aren’t really sure they remember when to sit, stand, and kneel. Maybe they think you are seething because their kids aren’t exhibiting perfect behavior. Are they sure they even want to be here? A connection with you will change that experience. A smile, a reassuring nod. Maybe a new friend, definitely growth in community.

So simple, and so often not mentioned. We are here for each other, as well as for God.

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Celebrating the Christmas Season

Jan 11 - The BAPTISM of the LORD
The Christmas season ends today with our regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

 

      For the next four weeks, join Fr. Don at noon on Sundays in the Bradican Room for faith250 in preparation for our nation’s 250th anniversary. See the bulletin for details.

      Join us for our monthly (third Monday) Taizé Prayer Service on Monday night, January 19, 8 - 8:45pm. Come for a peaceful moment of simple song and silence and pray for Christian Unity.

      Saint Bernadette School will celebrate the start of Catholic Schools Week with an Open House being held on Sunday January 25, Noon until 1pm. See what Saint Bernadette School has to offer
your family.

      All adult parishioners who have volunteered in the past several years are invited to come to our Night of Stars - Saturday, 31 January, 6:30-11pm. Join us for an evening dinner, drinks and
dancing to the music of the Andrew Thielen Big Band of North Myrtle Beach. This is an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the work of parish volunteers. Please note this event is a
seated dinner event, doors open at 6
:30pm with pre-event hospitality followed by dinner at 7pm. RSVP required to Evelyn.

      Bishop Burbidge has released a video invitation to participate in Virginia Pro-Life Day on Thursday, January 15, in Richmond. The complete schedule of events can be found on the
Diocesan website Arlingtondiocese.org/communications/.

      Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Our second interest meeting for teens and adults who might want to attend Work Camp is on January 15, 7-8:15 pm in the Cafeteria. For
inquiries, contact Matthew Frey, matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

      Today, we celebrate the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord. We always think of baptism as being baptized as babies. Did you know that Jesus was baptized as an adult? He was baptized at 30
years old by St. John the Baptist in the Jordan River. You can show your children this video about Jesus’ baptism: https://youtu.be/MYSHdpJ7loU. Find activities at
https://catholicprintableclub.com/how-to-celebrate-the-baptism-of-the-lord-sunday-after-epiphany/.

      We will hold a First Holy Communion parent information meeting on Jan. 20-21 from 6:15-7pm in the Bradican Room, for the 2nd year FHC, SPOC2 and MS/HS students receiving the
sacrament in the Spring of 2026. School parents are invited to attend. 

      During January, the parish will have a donation drive for baby supplies for Catholic Charities Migrant and Refugee Services. Items will be collected in the church vestibule. We will publish a list
of items requested by MRS in a few weeks. All parishioners are encouraged to donate.

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out
the  Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities:

Family Mass Learning: Jan. 10-11 after every Mass
Family Faith Formation: resumes Jan. 11
Regular classes resume: Jan. 13-14, 20-21, 27
SPRED Class: Jan. 24

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Our next monthly meeting will be Tuesday, January 13 at 7pm in the Bradican Rm. It’s game night! Bring a favorite board, card, or table game to play. Maybe you got a new game for
Christmas that you can’t wait to share. Come join the excitement and fellowship.

    Tuesday, January 20 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    In 2026, we are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff
date on February 5. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on January 8. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at
jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our
Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

   Work Camp 2026 registration is open - Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Our second interest meeting for teens and adults who might want to attend Work Camp is on
       January 15, 7-8:15 pm in the Cafeteria. For inquiries, contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering 7 January

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

Young Adults Faith Discussions All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our first Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, January 11, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 11 January 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

One of the drawbacks of holidays is that bulletins must be prepared so far in advance to meet the printer’s deadlines. Two documents have come from Pope Leo for Christmas and the new year, his Urbi et Orbi message (“to the city and to the world”) and his message for the 59th World Day of Peace, “Peace be with you all: Towards an ‘unarmed and disarming’ peace.”

I have reprinted the first on pages 8-9 of this bulletin, but the World Day of Peace message is too long to publish. So I thought I might mention a few parts of it. You can find the entire text on the Vatican website where all documents are found: https://www.vatican.va/content/leo-xiv/en/messages/peace/documents/20251208-messaggio-pace.html.

Peace is what we need so much of right now, and Pope Leo speaks a lot about this authentic, abiding peace that can live alongside life’s ambiguities, uncertainties, even the tragedy of war.

“The contrast between darkness and light is not only a biblical image describing the labor pains of a new world being born; it is also an experience that unsettles us and affects us amid the trials we face in our historical circumstances. In order to overcome the darkness, it is necessary to see the light and believe in it. This is a call that Jesus’ disciples are invited to live in a unique and privileged way; yet it also finds its way into every human heart. “Peace exists; it wants to dwell within us. It has the gentle power to enlighten and expand our understanding; it resists and overcomes violence. Peace is a breath of the eternal: while to evil we cry out ‘Enough,’ to peace we whisper ‘Forever.’ Into this horizon the Risen One has led us. Sustained by this conviction, even amid what Pope Francis called ‘a third world war fought piecemeal,’ peacemakers continue to resist the spread of darkness, standing as sentinels in the night.

Sadly, it is also possible to forget the light. When this happens, we lose our sense of realism and surrender to a partial and distorted view of the world, disfigured by darkness and fear. Many today call ‘realistic’ those narratives devoid of hope, blind to the beauty of others and forgetful of God’s grace, which is always at work in human hearts, even though wounded by sin. Saint Augustine urged Christians to forge an unbreakable bond with peace, so that by cherishing it deeply in their hearts, they would be able to radiate its luminous warmth around them. Addressing his community, he wrote: ‘If you wish to draw others to peace, first have it yourselves; be steadfast in peace yourselves. To inflame others, you must have the flame burning within.’

'Dear brothers and sisters, whether we have the gift of faith or feel we lack it, let us open ourselves to peace! Let us welcome it and recognize it, rather than believing it to be impossible and beyond our reach. Peace is more than just a goal; it is a presence and a journey. Even when it is endangered within us and around us, like a small flame threatened by a storm, we must protect it, never forgetting the names and stories of those who have borne witness to it. Peace is a principle that guides and defines our choices. Even in places where only rubble remains, and despair seems inevitable, we still find people who have not forgotten peace. Just as on the evening of Easter Jesus entered the place where his disciples were gathered in fear and discouragement, so too the peace of the risen Christ continues to pass through doors and barriers in the voices and faces of his witnesses. This gift enables us to remember goodness, to recognize it as victorious, to choose it again, and to do so together.”

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Celebrating the Christmas Season

Jan 4 - EPIPHANY of the LORD
Regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

Jan 11 - The BAPTISM of the LORD
The Christmas season ends today with our regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

 

      Join us for our monthly (third Monday) Taizé Prayer Service on Monday night, January 19, 8 - 8:45pm. Come for a peaceful moment of simple song and silence and pray for Christian Unity.

      Saint Bernadette School will celebrate the start of Catholic Schools Week with an Open House being held on Sunday January 25, Noon until 1pm. See what Saint Bernadette School has to offer your family.

      All adult parishioners who have volunteered in the past several years are invited to come to our Night of Stars - Saturday, 31 January, 6:30-11pm. Join us for an evening dinner, drinks and dancing to the music of the Andrew Thielen Big Band of North Myrtle Beach. This is an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the work of parish volunteers. Please note this event is a seated dinner event, doors open at 6:30pm with pre-event hospitality followed by dinner at 7pm.

      March for Life Transportation - Join fellow parishioners on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., on Friday, January 23. We will provide a bus if there are enough reservations. Please sign up at https://signup.com/go/jaFSeJy by January 9. There won’t be any cost, but we ask that you bring a package of diapers, wipes or formula to support our Baby Supply Drive for Catholic Charities Migration Resettlement Program. Questions? Call the office.

 

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

    Today, we celebrate the Feast of the Epiphany of the Lord. A special thing you can do with your family is the Epiphany Home Blessing. You can find out more about it here: https://www.looktohimandberadiant.com/2020/12/epiphany-home-blessing-kits-update-for.html

    We will hold a First Holy Communion parent information meeting on Jan. 20-21 from 6:15-7pm in the Bradican Room, for the 2nd year FHC, SPOC2 and MS/HS students receiving the sacrament in the Spring of 2026. School parents are invited to attend. 

    During January, the parish will have a donation drive for baby supplies for Catholic Charities Migrant and Refugee Services. Items will be collected in the church vestibule. We will publish a list of items requested by MRS in a few weeks.
All parishioners are encouraged to donate.

     Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities:

Regular classes: Jan. 6/7, 13/14, 20/21, 27
SPRED Classes: Jan. 10 and 24
Family Mass Learning:
Jan. 10-11 after every Mass
Family Faith Formation: resumes Jan. 11

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, January 6 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

    Our next monthly meeting will be Tuesday, January 13 at 7pm in the Bradican Rm. It’s game night! Bring a favorite board, card, or table game to play. Maybe you got a new game for Christmas that you can’t wait to share. Come join the excitement and fellowship.

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

   All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

  In 2026, we are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on February 5. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on January 8. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

   Work Camp 2026 registration is open - Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Our second interest meeting for teens and adults who might want to attend Work Camp is on January 15, 7-8:15 pm in the Cafeteria. For inquiries, contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering 7 January

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.

 

YOUNG ADULTS Group

Young Adults Faith Discussions All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our first Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, January 11, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 4 January 2025

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

The story of the three wise men, or Magi, from the East stands as a profound icon in the mystery of the Incarnation. These Gentile seekers, guided by a star, represent humanity’s innate longing for God, drawn irresistibly to the newborn Christ. God weaves them into salvation history not as afterthoughts, but as deliberate witnesses to the universality of Christ’s light, illuminating paths for interreligious friendship today.

The Gospel of Matthew introduces the Magi simply as “wise men from the East” who arrive in Jerusalem seeking “the child who has been born king of the Jews,” having observed “his star at its rising.” Tradition later styled them as kings—three in number, inferred from their gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh—but Scripture portrays them as magi, a term denoting Persian or Babylonian astrologers, philosophers, and scholars versed in the stars and ancient wisdom traditions.St. Thomas Aquinas notes they were “philosophers and wise men” in the Persian sense, not mere sorcerers, whose knowledge of celestial signs led them to recognize Christ’s glory as the source of all true wisdom. The were definitely “believers,” but rather than in the conventional way of Judaism, the older monotheistic religion of Zoroastrianism.

These men embodied the intellectual and spiritual elite of pagan cultures, poring over “the great book of the heavens” for cosmic truths. As representatives of neighboring pagan religions, they symbolize the Gentiles’ “dim expectation” of the Messiah, prepared by God across centuries through prophets and even in pagan hearts. Pope Francis describes them as having “restless hearts” stirred by the Holy Spirit, seekers of a star amid countless others, compelled to journey toward an unknown King. Their arrival in Bethlehem, warned in a dream to bypass Herod, underscores divine providence overriding human schemes.

The Epiphany is Christ’s manifestation not only to Israel but to all nations, with the Magi as “the first-fruits of the nations” who welcome salvation through the Incarnation.

In the Magi’s adoration and gifts, God fulfills prophecies like Isaiah 60:3: “nations shall walk by your light, kings by the brightness of your rising.” They represent the Gentiles joining Israel’s heritage; their wisdom discerned cosmic significance, yet required the Jewish prophets for the final step, culminating in finding the child Jesus with Mary his mother. Ignatius of Loyola contemplates them adoring and offering gifts, then departing transformed by another road—symbolizing conversion.

This episode expands the Incarnation’s scope: Christ’s birth shatters ethnic barriers, drawing all peoples into the marvellous exchange where God becomes a child so we might become children of God. As Pope John Paul II affirmed, their story echoes Nostra aetate, acknowledging rays of truth in other traditions while proclaiming Christ as the fullness.

The Magi’s journey prefigures the Church’s dialogue with all religions, integral to her mission to the peoples. Dialogue, like the Magi’s star-guided search, fosters mutual knowledge and enrichment without supplanting proclamation: salvation comes from Christ, and the Church is the ordinary means.

Today, like the Magi, people of other faiths harbor “restless hearts” seeking God; the Church draws out this desire, reflecting Christ’s light. Their story counters relativism: religions hold “true and holy” elements reflecting divine truth, yet Christ is “the way, the truth, and the life” seeking peace, justice, and common good.

The Magi challenge us: heed the star of conscience, consult Scripture, adore Christ, and return transformed. In our encounters with others, too often we have failed to acknowledge one other as persons with the same human hearts first, and recognize that all God’s people are made in his image and likeness. Recognizing this opens us to others’ wisdom, firmly rooted in Christ’s uniqueness. As the Church’s “sacrament of unity,” foster authentic dialogue that purifies and unites toward the Kingdom.

In this season of Epiphany, may we, like the Magi, journey from partial truths to the full Light, bridging faiths in charity and truth.

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Celebrating the Christmas Season

Dec 28 - FEAST of the HOLY FAMILY
Regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

Jan 1 - MARY, MOTHER of GOD
(IS a Holy Day of Obligation this year)
Regular Holy Day schedule: Wednesday, Vigil 7:30pm
Thursday, 7 & 9am, Noon, 7pm (bilingual)

Jan 4 - EPIPHANY of the LORD
Regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

Jan 11 - The BAPTISM of the LORD
The Christmas season ends today with our regular Saturday Vigil / Sunday schedule

 

    All adult parishioners who have volunteered in the past several years are invited to come to our Night of Stars - Saturday, 31 January, 6:30-11pm. Join us for an evening dinner, drinks and dancing to the music of the Andrew Thielen Big Band of North Myrtle Beach. This is an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the work of parish volunteers. RSVP to Evelyn in the parish office by January 23.

  March for Life Transportation - Join fellow parishioners on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., on Friday, January 23. We will provide a bus if there are enough reservations. Please sign up at https://signup.com/go/jaFSeJy by January 9. There won’t be any cost, but we ask that you bring a package of diapers, wipes or formula to support our Baby Supply Drive for Catholic Charities Migration Resettlement Program. Questions? Call the office.

 

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

     Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities:

Regular classes: Jan. 6/7, 13/14, 20/21, 27
No Classes: 30/31 (Christmas Break)
SPRED Classes: Jan. 10 and 24
Family Mass Learning:
Jan. 10-11 after every Mass
Family Faith Formation: resumes Jan. 11

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, January 6 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

   All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

  In 2026, we are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on February 5. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room, with the kickoff date on January 8. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

   All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

   Work Camp 2026 registration is open - Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Our second interest meeting for teens and adults who might want to attend Work Camp is on January 15, 7-8:15 pm in the Cafeteria. For inquiries, contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering 7 January

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.

 

YOUNG ADULTS Group

Young Adults Faith Discussions All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our first Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, January 11, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 28 December 2025

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

But you, Bethlehem-Ephrathaha
least among the clans of Judah,
From you shall come forth for me
one who is to be ruler in Israel;
Whose origin is from of old,
from ancient times.

Therefore the Lord will give them up, until the time when she who is to give birth has borne,
Then the rest of his kindred shall return
to the children of Israel.

He shall take his place as shepherd
by the strength of the LORD,
by the majestic name of the LORD, his God;
And they shall dwell securely, for now his greatness shall reach to the ends of the earth:

He shall be peace. Micah 5:1-4

Merry Christmas, again, to you all!

I was reflecting on my trip to Taiwan last summer to speak at a Pure-land Buddhist Convention about the spirituality of interreligious dialogue. I think I printed nearly my entire talk in a bulletin in late July or early August (you can look it up on our website if you are interested). I had never spent a period of days before this completely alone as a Catholic. You don’t know what being a minority religiously feels like until it actually happens. It is an experience that I remember considering humbling, even disarming, although I don’t generally consider faith to be something of an armament. I guess a better word would be exposed. Exposed to so much unexpected kindness and acceptance, more even than I usually feel in my regular life.

My reflection for that time and since has been really very simple: God is love; Buddhists know love, therefore Buddhists know God. Jesus is peace, Buddhists know peace and seek it completely everyday, Buddhists seek Jesus, even if unaware by another name or belief.

We look out into the world with so much not-peace: conflict, hate, genocide, human-caused starvation and famine. It is too easy to fall into the old categories that the peace we seek is any different from the peace the world seeks. The only ones who are not seeking peace and not working for it, simply, are not seeking Jesus, even if they claim to know him and live otherwise.

He shall be peace.

Pope Leo had a lot to say about peace in his first annual peace message last month in December. He presents a comprehensive vision of peace that challenges contem-porary attitudes toward conflict and security.

He insisted that peace is not an unattainable goal but a real possibility for which human-ity must not surrender hope. He warned that treating peace as a “distant ideal” prevents people from being “scandalized when it is denied” or when war is waged in its name. Peace is possible, and necessary.

Drawing from the greeting of the Risen Christ, “Peace be with you,” Pope Leo describes true peace as “unarmed and disarming,” a peace born of evangelical humility and an openness to dialogue. He links this to Jesus’ nonviolent response, even when threatened with force.

The Pope blasted the “irrationality” of military deterrence, especially nuclear weapons, and rising global military expenditures (which increased by 9.4% in 2024). He also decried the “destructive betrayal” of human principles involved in delegating life-and-death decisions to artificial intelligence and automated weapons systems.

He called on all religious leaders and believers to guard against the “growing temptation to weaponize even thoughts and words” and to condemn the use of religion to justify violence, nationalism, or armed struggle.

The Pope stressed the importance of diplomacy, mutual trust, and interreligious dialogue as essential paths to peace. He emphasized personal responsibility in cultivating peace in hearts, relationships, and prayers.

Micah foretells the coming of Jesus Christ as the ultimate source and embodiment of peace. Pope Leo’s comments align with this biblical understanding, presenting Christ’s peace as a model for all humanity.

To paraphrase Saint John of the Cross’ teaching about love, consider: “Where there is no peace, let me make peace, and I will find peace. Blessings this Christmas season.

The Lord be with you,