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PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS for the week of 1 March 2026

Lenten Observances

Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal – Ash Wed/ Good Friday

Abstinence: No meat – ALL Fridays

Parish Soup Suppers: Fridays in Lent, 6pm

Stations of the Cross: Fridays, 7pm in English, 7:45pm in Spanish, in the church

Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-8pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30pm (as usual). Please plan confessions early in the season to avoid running out of time.

Parish Penance Service: Tuesday, Mar. 24, 6:30pm

40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission
Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Sunday–Tuesday, March 1-3. Begins with 5pm Mass Sunday followed by adoration and mission talks by Christopher White, American journalist and analyst, known for his extensive coverage of the Vatican and Catholic Church Life at 6:15pm. Additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evening at 6:30pm followed by Lenten Mission talks at 7:30pm. Close of 40 Hours with Benediction, Tuesday night after the talk.

 

   Bishop’s Lenten Appeal. We’re at 69% with 448 pledges. Just drop your pledge envelopes in the basket at Mass or at the office, or visit www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $582,000.

   Our 40 hours Eucharistic Adoration begins this Sunday. Two people are needed for adoration round the clock from Sunday evening through Tuesday evening.  The sign-in-sheet for Adoration is in the vestibule. Parish mission talks will follow the 5 PM Sunday Mass and after additional Masses at 6:30 PM on Monday and Tuesday. See the bulletin for details.

   Additional Wednesday evening confessions during Lent begin this Wednesday from 6:30-8PM.

   Lenten Soup Suppers are every Friday in Lent at 6:00 PM followed by the Stations of the Cross at 7:00 PM in English and 7:45 PM in Spanish.

The Knights of Columbus Springfield Council 6153 is hosting a Spaghetti Dinner/Trivia Contest Saturday, March 14 in the school cafeteria. Dinner is from 6–7:30pm followed by trivia until 9pm.

   All women are invited to a Lenten Night of Reflection with a special talk given by Bea Frey. Saturday, March 21st from 6:30-8:30 pm in the Saint Bernadette School Gym. Invite a friend to join us. Registration is not required but helpful at: https://forms.gle/QrkMVJmawkrPXLXCA.

   There are two containers of river stones near the altar. Your Lenten assignment is to choose a person you know that has left the Church or is no longer practicing their faith. Invite them to come back and tell them the parish is praying for them. As a sign of your prayer, take a stone and place it near the altar. We will see the field of stones grow over the season of Lent, and will be reminded, all of us, to pray for these people during this powerful season.

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

    This Sunday’s Gospel reading is about The Transfiguration of Jesus. It is the very moment when Jesus reveals his divine glory to his disciples; Peter, James and John. His face became bright and his clothes dazzling white and he was in conversation with Moses and Elijah. You can watch the story with your children here: https://youtu.be/KfT5mInsr9A. You can find tips with explaining the Transfiguration here: https://youtu.be/ynMjc2bMzLY.

     Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

Family Faith Formation: Mar. 1
Regular classes: every week in March
SPRED Classes: Mar. 7 & 21
Family Mass Learning: Mar. 8
Sunday Donut Social: Mar. 22

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, March 3 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

    Our next monthly meeting will be a Tea Party on Sunday, March 15 at 3pm in the Bradican Rm. Sign up for this special event is required. Go to https://www.signupgenius.com/go/30E0F45A4AB2DA1FB6-62466730-its#/ to reserve your seat or to volunteer to bring goodies. Bring your favorite tea cup and the story that goes with it.


YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All high schoolers are invited to attend our Thursday night small group sessions. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    All High schoolers are invited for dinner, games, fellowship, and adoration with praise and worship on Saturday, February 21. Meet in the Bradican Room from 6-8:30pm!

    Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    Workcamp - Adult Volunteers Needed! All adults of the parish are invited to consider volunteering for Workcamp. We can find a role for anyone willing to help. We are especially in need of female crew leaders to serve alongside our teens during the week of Workcamp. No construction skills needed; must be 25 or older. Please contact our parish Stakeholder, Matthew Frey, for more information. matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering March 4

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, March 8, 6-8pm in the Bradican Rm. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org
or JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org,

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 1 March 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Our Lenten small group/self study begins this week using Session Two, The Introductory Rites, from A Biblical Walk through the Mass by Edward Sri.

Of course, the two major movements of the Mass are the Liturgy of the Word and the Liturgy of the Eucharist. They are preceded with introductory rites as well as followed by concluding rites.

The first thing I want to say is that, although they are not as vital as the two central parts of the Mass, they are still vital and should be emphasized because they matter. If we don’t understand them, people will continue to come late and leave early because they think these rites don’t matter. It is striking, and troubling, how most people come to Mass late, and leave early -- not only in our parish.

In Session Two, Edward Sri has some interesting insights into Old Testament origins for many of these gestures, listed at the left. I thought I would share with you what I think are the most important takeaways.

First, what he doesn’t mention. An integral part of the introductory rites, though more of an element that evolved over the centuries (like the penitential rite itself), is the gathering hymn or song. Imagine a time when people walked to their neighborhood church. As they gathered, they sang. Procession is always an outward sign of community. They would come together at the door of the church, and the Mass would begin with the greeting and the collect. Ministers of the Mass process, and the assembly sings.

The sign of the cross. The book makes some reference to Old Testament types (Ezekiel 8), but I think the most important reflection is personal. Before the start of the Mass, you have already signed yourself with holy water “In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.” The baptismal water reminds us of our baptismal identity, and we literally announce ourselves as we enter the sacred space of the church. Sri says we call upon God’s name at this moment, which may be central to his spirituality, but at the moment of my baptism the priest didn’t say to me, “I baptize you in the name of Don.” Rather, my name is literally Father, Son and Holy Spirit. At the moment the Mass begins, we all say it together, a powerful sign of unity and our identity which is found in God.

Then we call to mind our sins. We reflect in a silent examination of conscience in order to prepare for the coming rites in which we listen to God’s Word and receive his Holy Communion with pure hearts. The “I confess” is an act of contrition, like you do in the sacrament of reconciliation. The Church teaches us that venial sins may be forgiven by an act of contrition or an act of charity. So this is how we prepare for Communion: if you are conscious of mortal sin, you must first go to confession, receive absolution, and do the penance prescribed. Do you see why it is so important that everyone be present for this introductory rite?

I have been told that former versions of the Mass had a lot in common with Eastern Rite churches in the multiplication of elements. For example in the former Latin Mass the priest made the sign of the cross 52 times. It is common in the East to say Lord, have mercy seven times, seven times (real fast). Edward Sri applies a trinitarian interpretation to the three times we say it. That may be so, but I like his explanation of mercy (hesed) better. Mercy is not something that a higher, more important person bestows on a lower. It is the covenantal love with which one embraces another out of unconditional commitment.

We suddenly turn from our sorrow for sin to the joy of the gloria. Glory to God in the highest! We sing with the angels who used these words at the birth Jesus, now looking ahead to his coming at Mass, as well as the “Hosanna in the highest, blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord,” the words of praise as Jesus enters the holy city on Palm Sunday. The sacrifice is near... It is a striking juxtaposition of events in our story of salvation, placed here as a foreshadowing of the Mystery about to come.

Finally, the introductory rites end with the opening prayer of the Mass, called the Collect. Here is how this is supposed to work. The priest calls us to prayer: “Let us pray.” There is a pause. This is when you call to mind your intentions for this Mass. Who do you wish to lift up to God? What do you ask on their behalf? What is it you ask of God on behalf of our broken world, the great suffering of peoples, the great need? You include your intentions in silence, and the priest then collects all of them, wrapping them up in the thematic prayer of the day.

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Lenten Observances

Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal – Ash Wed/ Good Friday

Abstinence: No meat – ALL Fridays

Parish Soup Suppers: Fridays in Lent, 6pm

Stations of the Cross: Fridays, 7pm in English, 7:45pm in Spanish, in the church

Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-8pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30pm (as usual). Please plan confessions early in the season to avoid running out of time.

Parish Penance Service: Tuesday, Mar. 24, 6:30pm

40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission
Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Sunday–Tuesday, March 1-3. Begins with 5pm Mass Sunday followed by adoration and mission talks by Christopher White, American journalist and analyst, known for his extensive coverage of the Vatican and Catholic Church Life at 6:15pm. Additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evening at 6:30pm followed by Lenten Mission talks at 7:30pm. Close of 40 Hours with Benediction, Tuesday night after the talk.

 

   Bishop’s Lenten Appeal. We’re at 69% with 448 pledges. Just drop your pledge envelopes in the basket at Mass or at the office, or visit www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $582,000.

   Our 40 hours Eucharistic Adoration begins next Sunday. Two people are needed for adoration round the clock from Sunday evening through Tuesday evening.  The sign-in-sheet for Adoration is in the vestibule. Parish mission talks will follow the 5 PM Sunday Mass and after additional Masses at 6:30 PM on Monday and Tuesday. See the bulletin for details.

   Additional Wednesday evening confessions during Lent begin this Wednesday from 6:30-8PM.

   Lenten Soup Suppers are every Friday in Lent at 6:00 PM followed by the Stations of the Cross at 7:00 PM in English and 7:45 PM in Spanish.

   All women are invited to a Lenten Night of Reflection with a special talk given by Bea Fry. Saturday, March 21st from 6:30-8:30 pm in the Saint Bernadette School Gym. Invite a friend to join us. See next week’s bulletin for more information.

   This weekend there are two containers of river stones near the altar. Your Lenten assignment is to choose a person you know that has left the Church or is no longer practicing their faith. Invite them to come back and tell them the parish is praying for them. As a sign of your prayer, take a stone and place it near the altar. We will see the field of stones grow over the season of Lent, and will be reminded, all of us, to pray for these people during this powerful season.

 

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

    This Sunday marks the First Sunday of Lent.  A good way to teach your children the true meaning of Lent is by praying or attending the Stations of the Cross at St. Bernadette. They can walk with Jesus from His condemnation by Pilate, through his suffering and sacrifice.  This can help them understand that every Sunday Mass is a “mini-Easter” with Jesus’ sacrifice and his true presence in the Eucharist.  You can find the Stations of the Cross activities here: https://www.catholicicing.com/stations-of-the-cross-for-kids/ or Lent activities here: https://www.looktohimandberadiant.com/2025/02/allllllll-all-about-lent-holy-week.html

     Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

     Join us this Sunday, February 22, following the 9am Mass for our Sunday Donut Social! Parents, come enjoy coffee and fellowship while your children make liturgical themed crafts with our volunteers!

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

SPRED Classes: Feb. 21, Mar. 7 & 21
No RE Class: Feb. 17/18
Regular classes: Feb. 24/25, Mar. 3/4, 10/11
Family Faith Formation: Mar. 1
Family Mass Learning: Mar. 8

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, March 3 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All high schoolers are invited to attend our Thursday night small group sessions. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    All High schoolers are invited for dinner, games, fellowship, and adoration with praise and worship on Saturday, February 21. Meet in the Bradican Room from 6-8:30pm!

    Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    Work Camp 2026 registration is open: Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

    NEW DATE / Registration has re-opened: All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, March 13-Sunday, March 15. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering March 4

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, March 8, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org
or JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org,

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 22 February 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Our Lenten small group/self study begins this week using Session One from A Biblical Walk through the Mass by Edward Sri.

His first session on the Mass has to do with the historical and religious underpinnings of Judaism. You can’t really look at the New Testament if you don’t use a filter of the Hebrew Scriptures, because the New Testament world and their understanding of God didn’t suddenly just appear; they grew out of a rich context of a long, often troubled relationship of a people with their God. If you don’t recognize the sacred significance of ritual sacrifice and ritual meal in the time before Jesus, you will not grasp the literal and deliberate actions he took and what they meant.

He gave a thorough catechesis to his disciples and followers to prepare them for what was to come. At the time it often seems like people weren’t paying attention, but looking back from our time we can see the methodical way in which Jesus was preparing his followers for the unfolding of his passion, death and resurrection.

His bread of life discourse is, even for us today, a lot to take in, and would have been absolutely unacceptable at the time of Jesus. If you do not eat the flesh (literally, gnaw on) of the Son of Man and drink his blood you will not have life in you ... my flesh is real food and my blood, real drink. It says that after that, most of Jesus followers couldn’t continue following him. The message was that important, that this is his real presence.

In account after account in the Old Testament, the strict instructions/laws given to Moses by God about the Passover were to be followed to the letter. God’s instructions. On the night that the tenth and final plague was to happen and the first born male of every family and stable was to be struck down, there was only one way that the angel of death would pass over their houses. A strict ritual was to be followed in sacrificing a lamb without blemish, its blood was to be reserved and painted on the posts and lintel of their doorways. This was the sign by which the angel of death would pass over. Inside, the Passover meal was being eaten with care: certain ingredients which signified various aspects of their history and covenant with God. The Passover meal at every house was exactly the same, and eaten with your boots on and your staff in hand, as if you were a people ready to flee at a moment’s notice.

That moment at Jesus’ Last Supper was a confluence of everything that came before and after. First of all he, God, was the author of Passover. He chose this moment to reveal the purpose of his suffering and crucifixion the following day.

Could the author of the Passover have forgotten the lamb of sacrifice? There was no lamb. Do you think the apostles were troubled by this? At the point of the meal when the lamb is offered around the table, Jesus says take this and eat it: this is my Body, which will be given up for you. And, likewise, this is the cup of my Blood, the Blood of the new and eternal (not just everlasting) covenant, so that sins may be forgiven.

A new covenant is ratified by the ritual meal intended, as was the Passover, to be an unending observance. Jesus said, do this in memory of me. One of the powers of your soul, memory (the others being intellect and free will), has the active ability to make the past present. The Greek word is anamnesis.

Anamnesis is the word used to describe the fact that, at Mass, we aren’t just remembering what happened at the Last Supper. In the liturgy, Christ’s sacrifice is presented to us in a way that goes above and beyond “remembering.” I have heard it said that his sacrifice is being re-presented. How that is written is important. It isn’t a typo. The dash in “re-presented” assures that we aren’t saying that it is, somehow, a representation of what happened at the Last Supper. Instead, Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross is offered upon the altar, and we have access to the eternal moment of Calvery, God in time. Jesus, who offered himself up for our sins, is being made present to us. Body, blood, soul, and divinity, Jesus is present in the Eucharist. The Church has always taught that Christ is not re-sacrificed at each Mass, but that we enter into that one moment in history when he was scourged for our offenses and wounded for our sin. Jesus’ death defeated evil’s strongest consequence, death. The new Passover.

“Behold the Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world” (John the Baptist)

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Lenten Observances

Fasting:Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal – Ash Wed/ Good Friday

Abstinence:No meat – ALL Fridays

Parish Soup Suppers:Fridays in Lent, 6pm

Stations of the Cross:Fridays, 7pm in English, 7:45pm in Spanish, in the church

Lent Confessions:Wednesdays, 6:30-8pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30pm (as usual). Please plan confessions early in the season to avoid running out of time.

Parish Penance Service:Tuesday, Mar. 24, 6:30pm

40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission
Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Sunday–Tuesday, March 1-3. Begins with 5pm Mass Sunday followed by adoration and mission talks by Christopher White, American journalist and analyst, known for his extensive coverage of the Vatican and Catholic Church Life at 6:15pm. Additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evening at 6:30pm followed by Lenten Mission talks at 7:30pm. Close of 40 Hours with Benediction, Tuesday night after the talk.

 

       Bishop Burbidge has asked us to have a Holy Hour For Peace; we will have ours this Sunday after the 5PM Mass. Please join us.

      2025 year-end Contribution Statements will be mailed this week and next. Due to the inclement weather, delivery to your mailbox may be delayed. Please contact the parish office if you have any questions.

      The 2026 Bishop’s Lenten Appeal mailing was recently sent to parishioners. The 2026 theme is ““In Christ We Are One”, which reminds us of this great theological virtue that is rooted in Jesus Christ and the victory he won for us. The in-pew pledge weekend is next weekend, February 7/8, or you can make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA. Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $582,000.

      Discover the Beauty and Riches of the Mass Saint Bernadette Lenten Study 2026. Join us for a 5-week study this Lent, as we learn to better understand the celebration of the Mass. See the bulletin for more information.

      Inclement Weather Delays and Closures : Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

     This Wednesday is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent. During Lent, we are called to repent. We are also called to focus on prayer, fasting and almsgiving. You can watch this video with your children about the meaning of Lent. https://youtu.be/P8rAp7Jc4CQ. Don’t forget to go to Mass to receive ashes!

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out                the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

      Join us next Sunday, February 22, following the 9am Mass for our Sunday Donut Social! Parents, come enjoy coffee and fellowship while your children make liturgical themed crafts with our volunteers!

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

No Religious Education Classes: Feb. 17/18
Regular classes: Feb. 24/25
SPRED Class: Feb. 21
Sunday Doughnut Social: Feb. 22

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, February 17 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    We are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    All High schoolers are invited for dinner, games, fellowship, and adoration with praise and worship on Saturday, February 21. Meet in the Bradican Room from 6-8:30pm!

    Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    Work Camp 2026 registration is open: Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

    NEW DATE / Registration has re-opened: All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, March 13-Sunday, March 15. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering February 18

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, February 15, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 15 February 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

As I write this I have just returned from attending the monks’ Walk for Peace program this afternoon at National Cathedral. I represented Bishop Burbidge at their arrival last evening at Marymount University in Arlington. 2,300 miles and today the 108th day in their journey, the lead monk who gave the talks, Venerable Bhikkhu Paññākāra, never imagined this kind of outcome. Along roadways lined with cheering crowds, hand-made signs, and police escorts guiding the way, the Walk for Peace transformed from a modest journey launched in Fort Worth, Texas, into a movement followed by millions of people across the country who greeted them with great affection and gratitude.

His message was remarkably simple. That peace isn’t something that comes from outside of you. But the reality of today’s world with its endless distractions which constantly confront us and cause our “monkey minds” to jump here and there makes the possibility of inner peace more difficult than it ever was. Peace must come from within; it is work, it is practice. “You cannot wait for peace to walk to you. You must walk it.”

He gave a beautiful, simple teaching on the practice of mindfulness. This is not Buddhist ritual or meditation. It is our ability to truly focus on the thing at hand. He asked everyone to place their hands over their heart and find the heartbeat. Focus on it. Enter into it and realize that it is your core. In that heart is everything in the past, and the present moment. Consider it mindfully, and you will know yourself better and not be jumping from one impulse to another. You will find peace. But with smartphones today, he said, this is nearly impossible.

When you wake up in the morning, he said, do not look at your phone. Go about your normal morning routine. DO NOT look at your phone. Look into the mirror. Wipe the mirror clean - even if it is already - and leave the past in the past. Take a piece of paper and a pen and write, “Today will be my peaceful day.” Write it again. Read it out loud. Again. The tangible writing, seeing, hearing, speaking of it will reset your day and help you to be mindful of yourself and not be blown around so easily by developments. This is where you find peace.

He said that he practiced mindfulness, aware of every breath, every step along the roads from Fort Worth, Texas, to Washington, DC. Their intention was to bring this witness of true peace. The suffering, struggle, injury, sacrifice that these monks have made is a testimony that such challenges in life do not have to steal your peace. But if they do, you can reset tomorrow.

I watched with fascination as thousands of people, all religions, from all cutures, celebrated the presence of these monks. What were they looking for? That kind of deep peace that so many people are being successful in stealing from us on a daily basis. Not only in this country but in the whole world. It is up to you, he said, whether you let it affect you or not.

The Lord be with you,

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

Lenten Observances

Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal – Ash Wed/ Good Friday

Abstinence: No meat – ALL Fridays

Parish Soup Suppers: Fridays in Lent, 6pm

Stations of the Cross: Fridays, 7pm in English, 7:45pm in Spanish, in the church

Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-8pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30pm (as usual). Please plan confessions early in the season to avoid running out of time.

Parish Penance Service: Tuesday, Mar. 24, 6:30pm

40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission
Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Sunday–Tuesday, March 1-3. Begins with 5pm Mass Sunday followed by adoration and mission talks by Christopher White, American journalist and analyst, known for his extensive coverage of the Vatican and Catholic Church Life at 6:15pm. Additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evening at 6:30pm followed by Lenten Mission talks at 7:30pm. Close of 40 Hours with Benediction, Tuesday night after the talk.

      2025 year-end Contribution Statements will be mailed this week and next. Due to the inclement weather, delivery to your mailbox may be delayed. Please contact the parish office if you have any questions.

      The 2026 Bishop’s Lenten Appeal mailing was recently sent to parishioners. The 2026 theme is ““In Christ We Are One”, which reminds us of this great theological virtue that is rooted in Jesus Christ and the victory he won for us. The in-pew pledge weekend is next weekend, February 7/8, or you can make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA. Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $582,000.

      Discover the Beauty and Riches of the Mass Saint Bernadette Lenten Study 2026. Join us for a 5-week study this Lent, as we learn to better understand the celebration of the Mass. See the bulletin for more information.

      Inclement Weather Delays and Closures : Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

      On February 11, we celebrate the Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes.  She appeared 18 times to St. Bernadette Soubirous (our patron saint) in Lourdes, France. The message of Our Lady emphasized the importance of prayer, penance and the presence of God in our everyday life. You can teach your children about Our Lady of Lourdes and St. Bernadette on this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QbwjpgsiEU

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out                the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

     As we approach Ash Wednesday and Lent next week, one sacrament that we can focus on is Reconciliation. With Spring Confessions approaching this week, you can go over the steps to make a good confession with your children at this site: https://bustedhalo.com/ministry-resources/busted-halos-guide-confession or https://thelittleshepherds.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Free-Childrens-Confession-Guide.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

Family Mass Learning: Feb 7-8 after Masses
Regular classes:  Feb. 10-11, 24-25
Spring Confessions for students: Feb. 10-11
SPRED Class: Feb. 21
Sunday Doughnut Social: Feb. 22

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, February 17 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

    Our next monthly meeting will be Tuesday, February 10. This month’s meeting will be a virtual meeting on Zoom with a professional grief counselor. He has decades of experience helping family members faced with the challenges of health situations and life-style adjustment issues. If you do not normally receive Barbara’s emails, you can request the link at bdalmut@gmail.com.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    We are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    All High schoolers are invited for dinner, games, fellowship, and adoration with praise and worship on Saturday, February 21. Meet in the Bradican Room from 6-8:30pm!

    Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    Work Camp 2026 registration is open: Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

    NEW DATE / Registration has re-opened: All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, March 13-Sunday, March 15. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our
Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering February 18

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, February 15, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org

Fr. Don’s Weekly Letter ~ 8 February 2026

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

For the third year, on Ash Wednesday (TEN days away!) we will be offering an early evening Liturgy of the Word with the reception of ashes. You might ask, why would we consider a liturgy on Ash Wednesday that is only a Liturgy of the Word and not a full Mass with Eucharist?

The more practical quick answer is that there are many Catholics who, for whatever reason are unable to receive Communion: we want them to feel welcome as we begin the season of Lent. Many feel estranged because they’re anxious about their inability to receive Communion and don’t want to be judged. I was interested to learn that this was actually an attitude in the Church for many centuries, that no one is actually worthy of receiving the Host and those who did faced the judgment of others. In colonial times in America, for example, people would come to church and receive Communion very early in the morning on a Sunday and then would return for regular Mass later in the morning when no one would receive Communion and feel judged. That might sound foreign to our modern ears, but that is why, in order to be a Catholic such a low bar as “Easter Duty” is observed: in order to be Catholic, one must receive Holy Communion at least once between Ash Wednesday and Pentecost. Presumably, if you haven’t been attending Mass, or might be aware of grave sin, this would also include Confession.

But I think the best reason for a Liturgy of the Word and reception of ashes on Ash Wednesday is that it is an opportunity for our Church to invite all Christians to come and join with us equally for a celebration of the year. Ash Wednesday is not a holy day of obligation, and blessed ashes are a sacramental, not a sacrament, and may be received by anyone who comes with appropriate faith and the awareness of the need for reconciliation and forgiveness. We have such few ecumenical opportunities throughout the year where the faithful can attend fully together, especially our married couples who live with the reality of different church affiliations.

“Churches should act together in all matters except those in which deep differences of conviction compel them to act separately.” This Lund Principle was set forth by the 1952 Faith and Order Conference of the World Council of Churches and remains one of the foundational guides for the modern Christian unity movement.

All of our liturgies on Ash Wednesday will include Holy Communion and the reception of ashes, except for the Liturgy of the Word with ashes only at 6pm. It is an opportunity to join together with your Christian friends to start the season of Lent together.

Now is the time to be giving some thought to how we are going to make the gift of time that is Lent meaningful for 2026. Consider looking around and recognizing the ways we can reach out to those around us, easing burdens, bringing comfort, growing kindness and goodness. Such small acts begin the process of healing the divisions which threaten community and peace. Such a big job is accomplished by the many small acts of goodness which we are capable of doing. I find that doing good for others in small ways is so much easier than the alternative, and so much more satisfying than doing nothing.

Especially at this time, many people are just struggling with the confusion and uncertainty of what’s next for our country, and our world. Often, what people need most is for someone just to listen. Our lives are so full of data overload we can too easily shut others out. The feeling of powerlessness has left people angry, which can lead to depression over time. Talking it out - and being heard - is one way of breaking free from this cycle. Being a listener could be a commitment for you for Lent.

Another idea has something to do with the reason why, as I was describing earlier, nobody received Communion for centuries: The way we judge each other. Even if seemingly insignificant, it can introduce a crack in our families, our community, our Church. The Church is strong enough to keep us together, despite how we might push back at times. People in dialogue don’t always agree, but they keep the channel open. It is the Holy Spirit who is present in the magisterium of the Church, guiding us and making us relevant to the world today. Quiet kindness makes this possible, and most effective in a world full of shouting.sss

The Lord be with you,

Annual Night of Stars celebration postponed until 28 Feb.

Dear Faithful Volunteers,

It was with a considerable amount of discernment that we are postponing our annual Night of Stars event.

There are several variables informing this decision:

  1. the potential for 1–3 inches of snow Saturday afternoon and evening locally and to our south,
  2. many neighborhoods still are not fully cleared,
  3. uncertainty regarding the availability of the support staff needed to adequately host you, and
  4. the understandable reluctance to be out on the roads, especially as several are currently reduced to a single lane.

As you may know, our school has been closed this week, and several days of advanced planning and preparation are required for this event. Given these uncertainties, we feel it is prudent to postpone.

Our new event date will be 28 February 2026.

Thank you for your understanding, and for all you do in service for our parish community. Your reservations will remain in place; however, if for some reason the new date is no longer possible for you, we kindly ask that you notify us no later than February 23rd so we may offer the opportunity to those on our waiting list.

PARISH EVENTS & ANNOUNCEMENTS

      This weekend (weather permitting) join Fr. Don at noon on Sunday in the Bradican Room for faith250 in preparation for our nation’s 250th anniversary. If we are snowed out this weekend, too, we will meet next weekend, Feb. 8, for a final wrap up of the last two meetings.

       Knights of Columbus Springfield Council 6153 will be hosting a Spaghetti Dinner and Trivia Contest Saturday, February 7 in the school cafeteria.  Dinner is from 6–7:30pm followed by trivia until 9pm. Please join us, more details on page 11.

      2025 year-end Contribution Statements will be mailed this week and next. Due to the inclement weather, delivery to your mailbox may be delayed. Please contact the parish office if you have any questions.

    The 2026 Bishop’s Lenten Appeal mailing was recently sent to parishioners. The 2026 theme is ““In Christ We Are One”, which reminds us of this great theological virtue that is rooted in Jesus Christ and the victory he won for us. The in-pew pledge weekend is next weekend, February 7/8, or you can make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA. Please indicate you are a parishioner here and it will count toward our parish goal of $582,000.

      Discover the Beauty and Riches of the Mass Saint Bernadette Lenten Study 2026. Join us for a 5-week study this Lent, as we learn to better understand the celebration of the Mass. See the bulletin for more information.

      Inclement Weather Delays and Closures : Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.

FAITH FORMATION

Living the Liturgical Year: 

      On February 2nd, we celebrate the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord, also known as Candlemas. This feast occurs 40 days after the birth of Jesus. As with Jewish law, Mary and Joseph presented the infant Jesus at the Temple of Jerusalem, to fulfill God’s law and to entrust Jesus to him. You can learn more about Candlemas here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdq6g7SBcpg. To celebrate with your children, you can make Candlemas crepes. You can also find other Candlemas activity ideas here: https://www.asceticlifeofmotherhood.com/blog/9presentationofchrist-2025.

      Parish baby supplies donation drive: The donation drive for baby supplies for Catholic Charities Migrant and Refugee Services is ongoing until February 2. Items are being collected in the playpens in the church vestibule. All parishioners are encouraged to donate. See page 10.

      Volunteers for 2025-2026 ~ We are still in need for volunteers (assistant catechists, teen catechists, and hall monitors). If interested, please contact the Religious Education Office or fill out                the Volunteer Form on the website http://stbernpar.org/religious-education-volunteers/.

Upcoming Religious Education Activities

Sunday Doughnut Social: Feb. 1 after 9am Mass at the School Cafeteria
Family Faith Formation: Feb. 1
Regular classes: Feb. 3-4, 10-11, 24-25
SPRED Classes: Feb. 7, 21
Family Mass Learning: Feb 7-8 after Masses

 

WOMEN'S MINISTRY

    Come and enjoy warm fellowship and great food. No need to RSVP.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

    Tuesday, February 3 is our next Dinner with Friends at 5pm, at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays.

    Our next monthly meeting will be Tuesday, February 10. This month’s meeting will be a virtual meeting on Zoom with a professional grief counselor. He has decades of experience helping family members faced with the challenges of health situations and life-style adjustment issues. If you do not normally receive Barbara’s emails, you can request the link at bdalmut@gmail.com.

 

YOUTH MINISTRY

High School Youth Ministry

    All High Schoolers are invited to join us for Tuesday Socials every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm! Meet in the youth room (in the parish office) for games, ice cream, and a discussion on the faith.

    We are starting High School Small Groups. All high schoolers are welcome to attend. Guys’ Small Groups will be on 1st and 3rd Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. Girls’ Small Groups will be on 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 7pm in the Youth Room. For any questions, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    All High schoolers are invited for dinner, games, fellowship, and adoration with praise and worship on Saturday, February 21. Meet in the Bradican Room from 6-8:30pm!

    Volunteers for High School Program - We are looking for adults who share a deep passion for their Faith and want to help disciple high school teens. All adult volunteers must be VIRTUS
certified and undergo a background check. If you are interested, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

    Work Camp 2026 registration is open: Please visit our website to register for Work Camp. Contact Matthew Frey matthew_c_frey@yahoo.com or JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org for any inquiries.

    All highschoolers are welcome to an overnight retreat at Summit Lake in Emmitsburg, MD, January 30 - February 1. We are in collaboration with the youth ministries of St. Leo’s and Our
Lady of Good Counsel. Registration has opened. Please visit our website to register for the retreat. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin at jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org

 

Middle School Youth Ministry - next gathering February 4

   All 6th-8th graders are invited for games, snacks, and fun every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month! Meet in the school gym from 6:45-8pm.


YOUNG ADULTS Group

All Young Adults are invited to once-a-month Sunday night discussions and debates on key topics and mysteries about the Faith. Our next Faith Discussion will be on Sunday, February 15, 6-8pm in the Bradican Room. For any inquiries, contact JP McLaughlin, jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org.

Looking to join the Saint Bernadette’s Young Adults? Scan the QR code to join the Saint Bernadette Young Adults Group Chat.

To learn more about our middle and high school ministries,
please contact JP McLaughlin jpmclaughlin@stbernpar.org, or
Grace Mee, gmee@stbernpar.org